Access to whoever you choose.
Xdately is a private chat platform for adults. You pick someone and write to them straight away — no waiting for anyone to notice you first.
Get started free
An email address and a password, and you are in.
Already have an account?
How to get access
Create your account
An email address and a password. It is free and takes a minute.
Verify yourself
A display name, your date of birth and a photo. The date is the age check — everyone here is 18 or over.
Choose who you write to
Open a profile and send the first message. Nobody has to reach out to you first.
The profiles on Xdately
Mollypuu, 18Haninge
Lisasnusk, 22Stockholm
Looking4daddy, 25Ronneby
Zarasinful, 26Gotland
Tussi, 32Lessebo
Nnorish, 29Malmö
Hildaa, 35Vadstena
Fantasia96, 30Gotland
Why Xdately
Access
You pay for what you send and what you open. The price is shown before you pay, never after.
Safety
Every account is verified. You can report a profile at any time, and a person reads every report.
Discretion
You appear under a name you choose yourself. Your email address is never shown to anyone.
You pay for access
Messages, gifts and anything locked in the chat are paid for with tokens. Buy them in a bundle whenever you like, or take a subscription that gives you tokens at a lower price for 30 days. It does not renew by itself, and tokens you have bought stay until you use them.
FAQ
What kind of site is this?
A private chat platform for adults. You choose who you write with and pay for what you send and open. What you write stays in the chat.
Does it cost anything to join?
No. Creating an account and seeing who is here is free. Whether and when you spend anything is up to you.
Why do I have to verify myself?
So that we know you are over 18 and that the account is yours. You verify once, with a display name, your date of birth and a profile photo.
What does it mean when something is locked?
A photo or a video can arrive blurred, with a price on it. You see what it costs before you open it, and anything you have unlocked stays unlocked.
Am I tied to anything?
No. You buy tokens when you want to, or a subscription that runs for 30 days and does not renew by itself.
Is it discreet?
Yes. You appear under a name you choose yourself, and your email address is never shown to anyone.